Podcast Episode 259: 5 Tips to Start Your New Year Well

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I’m not a fan of New Year’s resolutions. I AM a fan of getting better each year. Here’s why and what has helped me. Show Notes: Get a FREE copy of One New Habit, One Big Goal: Change Your Life in 10 Weeks. Get information and register for the FREE Friedman’s Failure of Nerve Book […]

Podcast Episode 117: Mindfulness Can Help You Better Self-Regulate

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Mindfulness teaches us to stay focused on the present without judgment. Here’s how you can use this to self-regulate more effectively. Show Notes: Podcast Episode 49: Hot States, Cold States and Self-Regulation (Part 1 of 2) Podcast Episode 50: Hot States, Cold States and Self-Regulation (Part 2 of 2) Viktor Frankl quote — Send in […]

Podcast Episode 104: How to Make Your Habits Work for You

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This episode covers a repeatable process for developing positive habits to improve your spiritual, physical and professional lives. Show Notes: Get your FREE ecopy of One New Habit, One New Goal: Change Your Life in 10 Weeks The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan The Healthy […]

Podcast Episode 71: Save Your Energy for the Important Decisions

Not every decision is created equal. Knowing how to manage your decision-making energy will make you more confident, less anxious, and will leave you more energy for the big decisions. Show Notes: Successful people like Barack Obama and Mark Zuckerberg wear the same thing every day — and it’s not a coincidence from Business Insider […]

Three Things I Learned from Our Grandson

We just spent a week at a family reunion. If you listen to my podcast, you know that my wife, Jodi, and I took our two-year-old grandson, Thomas, with us. His parents had to work so they couldn’t go. This involved traveling cross country, and included airplanes, and quite a bit of time in the […]

Willpower Revisited

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If you haven’t read my last post, The Myth of Self-Discipline, you might want to do so. This post is in response to feedback I received. Rev. Bud Brown emailed to challenge the idea that willpower is a limited resource. He noted that a meta-analysis of all studies since the original chocolate chip/radish experiment could […]

The Myth of Self-Discipline

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“We first make our habits. Then our habits make us.” John Dryden I am undisciplined. I’ve known this all my life but have tried to ignore it. When I compare myself to John Wesley, the founder of Methodism, I feel like the slacker that I am. Wesley typically arose at 4:00 a.m., began every day […]