Podcast Episode 255: The Long-Term Cost of Surrounding Togetherness Pressure (and What You Can Do about It) – (Rebroadcast)
Seventy-six percent of people nearing the end of their lives say their biggest regret was living their lives according to other people and their expectations. This is surrounding togetherness pressure. Here’s what you can do about it. Show Notes: My apologies, as there are two spots in the episode where one channel drops out briefly. […]
Podcast Episode 158: The Long-Term Cost of Surrounding Togetherness Pressure (and What You Can Do about It)
Seventy-six percent of people nearing the end of their lives say their biggest regret was living their lives according to other people and their expectations. This is surrounding togetherness pressure. Here’s what you can do about it. Show Notes: The experience of regret: What, when, and why by Thomas Gilovich and Victoria Medvec Episode 24: […]
Leadership Requires Vulnerability
“Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.” Brené Brown If you haven’t seen Brené Brown’s TEDxHouston talk on the power of vulnerability, it is a well-spent 15 minutes. It is one of the most watched TED Talks ever. Brown shares her own journey from shame to vulnerability and the positive impact that it […]
Podcast Episode 28: How to Take a Leadership Stand on Controversial Issues (including a Family Systems take on Donald Trump’s Leadership Style)
As a leader, people want to know where you stand. Learning how to do this in a healthy way creates the possibility for conversations that can lead to effective change. Show Notes: Gun Reform: Speaking Truth to Bullshit, Practicing Civility, and Effecting Change by Brene Brown Trump’s Chaos Theory by Lance Morrow What’s Wrong with […]
Podcast Episode 16: A Family Systems Perspective on Brene Brown’s Anatomy of Trust
Brene Brown uses the acronym “BRAVING” to describe how to build trust in relationships. Trust is key to effective leadership. Understanding Brown’s take from a family systems perspective is helpful in learning to be a non-anxious presence. Show Notes: Brene Brown’s talk on the Anatomy of Trust The SPEED of TRUST: The One Thing that […]
Finding a Path without Anxiety or Blame
This is my take on where we are as country at the beginning of the Trump Administration. Here is the video transcript. Please remember that it will read like a conversation, not a term paper (maybe that’s a good thing). Hey there, Jack Shitama. Today is January 21st 2017, the day after inauguration day. That […]
